Have your ever head they saying, that the power is in the tongue?
Using the right words can make people money, get a guy elected for President, even get's you a job you weren't qualified for.
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Words are everything when it comes to connecting and building relationships, if you could use the right words every time you would be the most powerful person in the world.
Right now the words you're using are failing you badly, because you want your ex lover back, and every time you say something it drives them further and further away from you.
98% of the time when someone wants to say certain words, our tonality changes leaving a negative vibe for the person we want a response from.
Also when it comes down to re-connecting with an ex lover, you need to use words that speak to their emotional hot spots.
Words like I miss you why are you doing this to me, aren't words that will get your ex lover thinking about you again.
You must say things that will get them remembering the good times, the reason why they were with you in the first place.
This all can happen when using the correct approach.
Pulling an ex lover back doesn't have to be so hard and tiring, it really can be solved and done with a few easy steps.
Most people fail at re connecting their lost relationships because they never use the right words an fail to hit their ex lovers emotional hot spots.
You will fail also, if you don't succeed at hitting your ex lovers emotional hot spots also.
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