Is Your Desperation Driving Men Away?

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So stop trying to figure out how to merge your bank accounts on date 2, stop hinting that you'd like a family on date 4, stop trying to know things about your future when you've only been together for six months. You might think you know after six months, but if my wife – or my friends' wives – pressured me or my friends for a lifetime decision after only six months together, none of us would be married right now. It's patently foolish for men to make a permanent decision to marry and bring children into the world unless they're really sure. You might not like to hear me telling you to just chill out, but it gets far better results than pressuring him to commit before he knows he's fully ready. How To Master Commitment

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