Would the world be a better place if being 60 lbs overweight didn't matter? Sure. Would the world be a better place if 5'4" men fared as well as 6" tall men? Absolutely. Wouldn't it be great if a male second grade teacher had as much status and appeal as the C.E.O. of a Fortune 500 company? Yep.
But that's not the world we live in. And the people who do best in the world we live in are not the ones who try to rewrite the rules of society but, rather, figure out how to navigate them successfully. 5 Countries Where Skinny Isn't Sexy
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I know this isn't easy, but if I were you, and made a positive transformation, I'd literally drop the idea that the "right" guy doesn't care about looks and embrace the incredible opportunity you created for yourself. Really. You deserve it. Community Blog: Why Thin Sex Is Better Than Fat Sex
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