Do You Expect Too Much From Men?

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Do You Expect Too Much From Men?

Realize that these are all contradictions. Sensitive artists want to talk. Entrepreneurs will work past six. Charmers will exploit their skills with women. Expecting otherwise is useless. If you're with a sensitive guy, it isn't about your boyfriend "overcoming" his emotional neediness for your sake. Nope. He's a nice guy who treats you like gold and wants to know where he stands. The only person who has to overcome anything is YOU. You need to make a choice: to put up with his emotional neediness (as so many men do with so many women), OR to break up with him and find a new guy, knowing full well that the new guy may not be as emotionally available as the current guy. It's not a clear-cut decision, nor should it be. But don't expect guys to be all things at all times. That's just wishful thinking.

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