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Describing Eric Amaranth's Guided Sex-Sex Life Consulting and Coaching Sessions


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This is an edited version of this post, removing details of my clients' sessions, even though they are anonymous. I want future clients to have absolute assurance that all details on their sexual development interests are omitted from public view to minimize to 100% any chance of their working with me being compromised. If, however, a client submits writings to me in the form of testimonials, erotica, etc. stated clearly that they are for me to post, then I post them as they are written with some editing if need be. What follows is a description of the format of specifically a Guided Sex session. Talk-teach sessions are also available for those not ready or interested in Guided Sex.

IMy Guided Sex method of sex life consulting gives the client my first-hand feedback and guidance while the client is engaged in some form of solo or partnered sexual activity. I do not make sexual or sensual contact with the client. I remain clothed throughout and the client(s) may remove any clothing they want, but total nudity is not necessary. Not every client chooses my Guided Sex teaching option. Most choose talk-teach where no sexual activity happens and that works well too. I also have an option where I do talk-teach with the aid of sex toys as props so the client can observe my technique then practice and master it for themselves. I can do Guided Sex sessions in-person, via Skype Voiceover IP with or without video, or telephone. Video with audio obviously gives me much more information on the present moment with a client, but I've had successful audio-only sessions as well. People who feel ready for Guided Sex are excited to have that option available. I came up with what I call, "best friend sessions" where a woman and a girlfriend or a man and his buddy learn together if they aren't comfortable learning with Eric singularly. I charge the same for a couple as an individual. A lot of psychologists and couples councelors with whom I've discussed my work like that I have both talk-teach and Guided Sex options available, and different options within those options tailored to find precisely where each client fits for their comfort.

It's very like having a dance instructor, a tennis coach, or a guitar teacher, there to correct and direct you through your learning. My Guided Sex clients often learn more, faster, because they can apply it immediately. I've had some clients tell me it's easier on them to have me there on a screen, a voice in the room and not there in-person. Others have preferred me there or it seems weird. I offer all the options I can.

Below is a recent testimonial after only our first session together. This:

Wow, so our session. Was. Amazing. I was falling into a rut of unsatisfying solo orgasms. I could have one by using my hand, but that usually takes about 20 minutes on a good day. When I use the Hitachi Magic Wand I can get one out in a minute, and though those were the stronger O's I had, they were still leaving me wanting more. When I couldn’t get more out of self-loving I would give up after about an hour to an hour and a half, and still unsatisfied.

Eric Amaranth, you helped me get back to how to have those satisfying, powerfull orgasms. And what a wonderful time it was!!! You have a wonderful gift to be able to talk about the fine-tuning sides of sex and technique that brings out the best pleasure my body can make, and never during our session did I feel uncomfortable. Truly, you have a gift, and what a wonderful one it is.

If someone is struggling with anything, from the minute details of showing interest in another person to complicated sex techniques I would strongly recommend you (I’ve already suggested to a few people that they go to you!).

Thank for you all of your help, you are absolutely brilliant!!!

One of the things that Guided Sex sessions allow to happen is me to verify, to the best of my knowledge and experience, whether or not a woman is or isn't having genital-based orgasms based on what I observe in a given session, as I was taught to define genital orgasm by Betty Dodson. I can attest that many a time when Betty had private sessions, she'd teach me about clients who came in having convinced themselves they were inorgasmic when they actually were. They almost always were expecting an earthquaking explosion of pleasure and weren't paying attention to or not defining the bursts of pleasure in their genitals as orgasm(s). After I help verify the orgasm with her verbal feedback on the experience as well as my observations, we celebrate for a moment and then go on to learning ways to strengthen her orgasms so she can have the big O's and different types of orgasms.

I also work with couples, threesomes, and moresomes via Guided Sex to teach them sex positions and giving them the opportunity to try them in real time where I can be there to adjust what they're doing for faster learning. The body and mind learns sex skills faster when you can put them in the correct working form. Also, as is the case with more sexually advanced individuals and couples, receiving instruction and doing it there with observation is what they want because more advanced sexual skills can be more complex in their beauty and they feel like they've read all the sex selfhelp books. It's not consistently possible, to say the least, to learn complex, but incredible, sex skills by reading or hearing a description. Basics, yes. Advanced, not so much.

It's fun when often husbands and boyfriends, wives and girlfriends, and I reach a moment during the session where we feel like the team assembled for the receiving partner's best pleasure possible. It's fun because it's the first time in their lives when they had a second person there for input, plus the input from their partner, and the learning and results come rolling in. I also have

For those of you interested in your initial consultation and your questions answered on your sex life consulting, email me at ericamaranth(at)gmail-dot-com.

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