FACT: Women do it all the time.
Sitting around with their BFF’s and man watching! The cute face, the broad shoulders, the smoldering eyes and mmm, mmm, mmm the muscles! We can’t help that they conjure up naughty thoughts! But after you meet them, get to know them, and look beyond the surface, some men completely disappoint you. Why? Because we failed to also look for the traits that are sexy that have NOTHING to do with their appearance.
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FACT: Girls are strange, confusing creatures!
We snub the ‘nice guys’ and turn to the ‘bad boys’, only to be disappointed and shocked when they treat us… badly. We want partners for life that will live WITH us, but then look past those that actually want to it give it to us. And other times we tolerate behavior that is unacceptable ( and sometimes harmful) and wonder why we aren’t happy. Well, stop trying to change them. Change YOU. If they evolve with you- great. If not, start looking elsewhere, but when you go ‘Man Hunting’, remember that sexy is not just a fashion style, a tattoo, or a set of dimples. You’ve MUST pay attention and look beyond the surface.
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Become the love detective.
I asked 100 women what they thought was sexy in a man that had NOTHING to do with their appearance. Here are the top 10 answers that came up, in no particular order: