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Is Your Partner's Money Habits Breaking You Up?

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Is Your Partner's Money Habits Breaking You Up?
Your partner’s money decisions can make or break your relationship.

Another thing that happens is that they can get divided, split in two, fracturing their energies between too many irons in the fire.  When this happens, this person can become indecisive, divided and unsure what to do or which way to go.  This leads to mental and emotional chaos and arguments- the very bane of this number. He or she can feel left out, feel unfulfilled, unsatisfied and procrastinate. They won't listen to another point of view.

It all ends up in struggle, constant searching for something they are not aware of, chaos and unhappiness, relationship tension and very possibly break-up.

The irony is that a person with a prominent number 11 really does want to feel balanced in a happy, peaceful relationship built upon cooperation and communication.

In the case of this fellow, he had fragmented his interests and over extended himself financially. He couldn’t find a balance between generosity and business. He had been doing this over quite a few years. His lady had left. She couldn’t handle the downward spiral, even though he is a nice guy.

He was his own worst enemy. He was bullheaded and figured he knew what was best. He wouldn’t listen to anyone, including his lady, who had a little more money sense than he did. Instead, he pushed ahead, then blamed someone or something when it didn’t work out. He divided himself so thin that he lost everything. 

To resolve this situation, this person needs to start taking responsibility for his choices and the consequences that result. Stop blaming someone else for his problems and stop feeling like a victim. He needs to focus his energy, figure out how to find that middle path between the pillars of opposites to bring balance into his life. He needs to stop trying to please and satisfy both sides and instead, pick a middle point where he can hold his course and stop bouncing back and forth between opposites. Get out of a state of indecision and reduce the number of irons in the fire. Universe is doing that for him- by losing one business after the next.

Wisdom and understanding of the energies he is working with will help him be able to make conscious decisions that lead him through the pillars to his goals. Use his inner guidance as a buffer to neutralize the attractive pull to the sides.

Once he can establish a relationship with how he is energetically designed and the life challenges he chose upon his birth, he’ll start to make better decisions, become more successful and attract and keep a loving partner.

Just two numbers explained much of what he is currently experiencing. There are a lot more subtle influences that affect his daily life contained in his Soul Blueprint or Code.

We are all born with an energetic code that influences our behaviors and choice tendencies. This fellow is an extreme example of how his misunderstanding of himself and living the shadow side of his basic energetic blueprint or Soul codes created his experiences.

You have a specific pattern of energies or Soul Codes that influence how you relate to your partner and to money. Do you know how your Soul codes are affecting your life and your relationship?

I’d be happy to discuss them with you so that you can use your divinely given gifts as powerful tools to enhance your life experience.  Just contact me.

This article was originally published at . Reprinted with permission from the author.

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Elaine Correia

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Elaine Correia

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