7. One or both of you always needs to be right. When your partner's always right and you're always wrong, it feels suffocating. When you do not have a voice that's heard and respected, marriage turns into a dictatorship. Divorce provides you that irresistible freedom that you do not recieve from your spouse.
8. It's not in the kiss anymore. When you would rather have sex than passionately kiss, your marriage is in deep trouble.
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9. The conversations are over. The best way to have a happy marriage is to talk your way through it. This means sharing thoughts and feelings so that you're emotionally in sync. Without this bond, marriage is an empty and lonely place where partners want to leave.
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10. There is too little or too much money. When both partners need to work and one earns significantly more than the other, especially if it's the wife, control issues can sabotage the marriage. However too much extra cash, when partners are not careful, can fuel a party on life style that invites temptations that cause damage to a marriage as well as the lasting values that remind us of what's really important in life. Brad and Angelina... What Does Marriage Mean?