Last 9 Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 4 of 4

One does not set out to be a sexuality educator, not one coming from a typical Chinese family anyway. I became one to help people because I was tired to sex always talked about in negative ways. Here are the last nine ...

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Another 9 Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 3 of 4

I was probably 11 or 12 when I watched a video called “The Silent Scream” in primary school (or grade school in the U.S.). It is a documentary video which depicts the abortion process via ultrasound and shows an abortion taking place in the ...

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9 More Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 2 of 4

The only sexuality education I received in secondary school (or high school in the U.S.) was in the form of annual school talks presented by pharmaceutical companies promoting sanitary pads or tampons (depending where they ...

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9 Things I Wish I Had Learned In Sex Ed

Growing up in a relatively typical Chinese family in Singapore, I received very little sexuality education. Let me give you the context: I did not know that what I had "down there" was called the vulva even though I ...

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How Do I Run My Own Self-Retreat?

Have you ever gone on a holiday then wished you could go on another one? Perhaps you returned exhausted because you had organized too much to do on your holiday? Alternatively, you were too occupied accommodating the requests of those you ...

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