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Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Sex Coach

Dr. Martha Tara Lee - Sex Coach, Life Coach, Sex Educator, Speaker/Presenter - Singapore , Singapore
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"I didn’t know I had a vulva until I went to sex school. Of course, I have a vulva (pronounced as ‘vuhl-vah’) and a vagina (pronounced ‘vha-gine-a’). I ...

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How Masturbation Saved My Life

I know it sounds like an exaggeration — masturbation saved your life, woo, you know... But this is actually really how I saw it. This is really how I felt in my core what masturbation did for me. I didn't always look the way I look now — with long hair, contact lenses on occasion, ...

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Breast Cancer: It Happened To My Mom

I first found out my mom had breast cancer when I was 18. I was pursuing a Diploma in Mass Communications at Ngee Ann Polytechnic, and in my second of three year studies. My dad was actually the one who told me that doctors suspected my mom to have breast cancer. She was scheduled to go for a biopsy - where ...

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My Masturbation Story: I Got It Figured When I Was Five!

I first masturbated when I was four or five years old. It was definitely before I entered primary school and so this is how I remembered when it happened. My sister, who is one year younger, was the one who taught me how to masturbate. So if ...

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7 Reasons Why You Have a Fear of Love

You may have been Hurt in your childhood by care providers Wounded by parents’ inability to love you Rejected due to incompatibility with the other person Exhibited some behavior unconsciously that was off-putting Shunned due to bad timing as your intended just ended a ...

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6 More Eco-Conscious Ideas For A Better World And A Better You

Earth Day is on April 22. Are you ready for it? Can you be eco-friendly and sexual at the same time? When you get fruits, get GE-free food which means free from being genetically modified. There really hasn't been enough studies to know for sure if this food may have any kind of effect on your ...

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Success Stories

With her help I became a real women

“I’ve been married for 10 years and never really had sex due to the pain I experience. I’ve been suffering in silence all these years as I do not know where to seek help. I went to a doctor in a local hospital a few years ago but that didn’t help at all. All the doctor advised was for me to try to relax and do the kegel exercises… sex was still a pain.

I went to see Martha in Jan this year. I wasn’t sure initially if she could really help me. But I thought, I have to give it a try. Throughout the whole session she made me feel very comfortable and at ease. And I still wasn’t sure if I could have sex successfully after the sessions with her. Not that I was not confident with her or doubt her abilities…I wasn’t sure if I could do it. But she gave me lots of encouragement and assured me that I could do it just like any other women. I listened attentively in the 2 sessions I had with her and did the exercises she told me to. After just 2 sessions, I did it! I had sex for the first time! It was an emotional and beautiful experience. It was painful and uncomfortable initially but as we move along, it became easier and more pleasurable. Now, I look forward to sex… I don’t have to turn away from sex due to pain anymore.

I thank Martha from the bottom of my heart. With her help I became a real women… she changed our lives… she strengthen my relationship with my husband.”

- Virgin

I thank Martha from the bottom of my heart

“When I first met Martha, I knew she would be someone I could talk to openly without having to censor myself or worry about being judged. She herself is a woman who can speak to people on many different levels, as I’ve observed, while always remaining true to who she is. She is open and candid, funny and smart, sensitive and compassionate. All these things made me comfortable in approaching her in the first place.

I had been suffering in silence for years and after meeting Martha, felt for the first time in my 28 years, like there was light at the end of the tunnel. Not only did she address all the issues I presented her with, she was 100 percent successful in helping me get over them!

I was a virgin for 28 years, not because I wanted to be or thought I had to save myself, but because sex was always something that was too painful for me. I had tried a number of times with a few partners, and attempted penetration always left me with blinding pain. I often felt like there was something wrong with me because I knew that sex was supposed to be a natural thing, and being single and having to date always made me feel anxious because I hated the thought of having to deal with sex with new people.

In only 3 sessions, Martha helped me overcome everything I had been trying to fight against all my life and I finally managed to have sex with the partner that I love and trust, whom I had been trying to make love to for 5 years. She went through relaxation exercises, physical exercises, pelvic exercises, and most of all, encouraged me. With every session, she gave me the courage to be myself and acknowledge the things I deserve.

By my fourth session with Martha, we were discussing methods to start enjoying the sex I was already having. If that’s not a feat, I don’t know what is.

She helped me with something that I was nearly going to give up on after having tried for so long.

Until I met Martha, I was clueless about the fact that there were practicing sexologists in Singapore and always felt at a loss when it came to whom I could talk to about my sexuality and my problems with sex. Martha gave me the avenue to be honest about sex in a society that is so afraid to even utter a word about it. If I had not met with her, I am certain that I would still be in the same position I was in a few months ago, struggling with something that I thought was near impossible.

I thank Martha from the bottom of my heart, for giving me the self-esteem to be a healthy, sexual person and for being the force that managed to push me over one of the greatest hurdles of my life.”

- Anonymous

Many solutions to life’s challenges

“I’ve been working on self-development for several years now, but I’ve found there’s little substitute for working with a coach to work through my issues. Martha is a personal coach who’s remarkably free from judgment. Her gentle challenges of “Well, why not?” to my countless self-imposed barriers, has removed more psychological roadblocks than I had ever managed on my own. I learned there’s as many solutions to life’s challenges as I’m open to.

Martha’s belief in the positive power of intimacy and an open heart pointed the way towards possibilities and experiences I never considered possible in my life. If you’ve an issue you haven’t been able to work out on your own, why not do something different this time? Try talking to Martha.”

- Anonymous Male

She has my whole hearted recommendation

“I have been the fortunate recipient of individual coaching from Martha Lee during four one-hour sessions.

These sessions have covered three subjects which are current concerns for me:

1. developing a short term plan for improvement of physical exercise program and mental well being

2. initiation of a medium term career transition plan

3. defining first steps and aspirational goals for a long term personal development plan (a passion for more serious creative photography)

In each session, Ms. Lee expertly guided me through establishing the objective of the particular session, defining the goals I would like to set for myself, examination of options, hurdles, and opportunities in achieving these goals, and establishing my personal level of commitment to successful realization of these goals.

I would characterize Ms. Lee’s approach as professional, non judgemental, appropriately structured and goal oriented, personally interested and asking relevant thought provoking questions, encouraging of further ideas and development of detail action steps, and establishing a supportive openness to discuss follow through and results.

While these sessions were the first time I actually thought through and discussed many of my desired goals with another person, Ms Lee’s encouraging smile would appear at exactly the right instant to allow me to comfortably do so.

I value my coaching sessions with Ms. Lee, and feel I have already benefited greatly. She has my whole hearted recommendation.”

- Duff Hughes (Mr.)

Main SpecialtyEmpowering Women
Sexuality
CredentialsMA, Other
Time in Practice3-5 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseLife Coach
Sex Educator
Speaker/Presenter
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inChinese
English
Latest Expert Videos
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Love, Sex and Everything in Between: Fact and Fiction from a Sexologist

• What are the sexual problems faced by most Asian women? • How do ...

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Love, Sex and Everything in Between

What are the sexual problems faced by most Asian women?How do you ...

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Eco-Sex: Go Green Between the Sheets and Make Your Love Life Sustainable

Join the Eco-Sexual Revolution Leaving a smaller carbon footprint ...

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Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

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Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It

Enjoyable sex: it’s not about technique or a perfect body or ...

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Main SpecialtyEmpowering Women
Sexuality
CredentialsMA, Other
Time in Practice3-5 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseLife Coach
Sex Educator
Speaker/Presenter
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Via Skype
Via a webcam
Other, please inquire
I am fluent inChinese
English
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Love, Sex and Everything in Between: Fact and Fiction from a Sexologist

• What are the sexual problems faced by most Asian women? • How do ...

USD $17.71

Buy online

Love, Sex and Everything in Between

What are the sexual problems faced by most Asian women?How do you ...

Buy online

Eco-Sex: Go Green Between the Sheets and Make Your Love Life Sustainable

Join the Eco-Sexual Revolution Leaving a smaller carbon footprint ...

USD $13.49

Buy online

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

Relationship expert and bestselling author Tristan Taormino offers ...

USD $14.79

Buy online

Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It

Enjoyable sex: it’s not about technique or a perfect body or ...

Buy online