Argument as Aphrodisiac

      Beneath a couple’s fight is creative tension struggling to be resolved and released.  A fight is energy:  The opposite of love is not hate, but apathy.  Thus, when a couple is arguing and bickering, it is an outward sign that there is still care and molecules of ...

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Guys and Dolls

     Early doll-playing encourages the psychological skill of projection of potential and personality into an inert doll. Young girls learn to bring things to life via our own imaginations. These capacities can brighten and enrich the feminine inner psyche. Yet, dating men to assess them as ...

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12 Ways To Break Bad Relationship Habits

Do you have bad relationship habits? Of course you do. Who doesn't? That's why we asked over 100 YourTango Experts the following question: What are the most effective ways to overcome toxic relationship habits? The top three picks were: replacing them with more positive behaviors/habits, attending ...

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Fifty Shades: Why Anastasia Not Leila To Win Mr. Grey's Heart?

As the female characters of  E.L. James best seller Fifty Shades of Grey admit  themselves, they are very similar. Christian Grey has a certain type of woman he prefers to bed, Christian, however, regards one only as his sexual sub, and the other he makes an adored wife. Both women, it turns out, ...

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Are You Chemically Addicted To Your Past Love?

Out with the Old, and In with the New!  If you’re ending a relationship, it is best to stop looking backward over your shoulder (like Lots wife, you may turn to salt!); and instead face forward.  Get off the ruminative obsessive maze of churning the same regretful thoughts over in your mind. Face ...

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