We don't see the world as it is, we see it as we are.
Those layers pile on top of each other and bury our core self. You know, the core you that was there when you a little kid, dancing around in your underwear, not giving a rip how you looked or that you had no rhythm or what anyone in the world ...
Here is an argument for arguing: It shows you trust the other person and your relationship enough to make waves.
When couples say they never argue, it's often for one of two reasons:
1. They are too afraid of what ...
Relationships are kind of like therapy—they bring all your dirt to the surface so you can work through it and move beyond it. This makes perfect sense because relationships and therapy have the same purpose: growth.
Therapy is especially hard in the beginning because you’re becoming aware of all ...
Every once and a while I talk to someone who asks permission to end a friendship. They say something like, “Is it really okay that I stop calling?”, or “I can’t just ‘break-up’ with her…can I?”
Here’s my view on relationships:
Life is like a ...
How many relationship rules have you heard in your life? Too many to count, I’d bet.
“Wait three days before calling.”
“Laugh at his jokes and act very interested.”
“Tell him you have plans (even when you don’t) and act disinterested.”