Feelings will no longer grip or control you because you will make the choice about how to respond to them. This will be true even in the most difficult, seemingly impossible circumstances. What's more, doing so will be fun. I know that it sounds too good to be true, but it isn't. You can discover that freedom is a choice, and happiness is a choice. The Way to True Love is Through Self Love
Being who you are each and every day is a choice. It is simply a choice like turning on a light so that you can see, or drinking water to relieve your thirst. It is simply a choice that you can make anytime, anywhere, under any circumstance. What is experienced at these wondrous moments of coming into contact with your true self is the realization that this perspective has always been there, and can never be lost.
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What you need for this shift to occur is a sincere commitment to wanting to end your suffering, and the willingness to discover places you never knew existed. What it comes down to, and this is the splendor of the process, is making the choice to leave your pain behind so that you can have a life you might only have dreamed possible. 3 Ways To Attract Your Mate Through Self Love
This is what I call Getting Out Of The Box. It's simply choosing the perspective of your "true self."
Try it right now by asking yourself:
- What if I was free, how would life look?
- How would I see myself?
- How would I see what I am concerned about or afraid of?
- How do I want my life to be?
- What am I willing to do to make it happen?
Can you see that the fear and doubt recedes so that what's truly important to you becomes your focus? That's very liberating and exciting! Accomplishing Your Goals and Staying Motivated
I will be writing more articles in the coming weeks about using this simple, powerful and transformative process for healing your relationships and yourself, so that you can finally have the life you are looking for. Please click here to get a copy of my e-book, Out Of The box For Life for just $2.99! Enjoy!
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