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Dear D. Romance: I've learned my lesson

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Dear D. Romance: I've learned my lesson
In this video Dr. Romance helps a reader in dealing with her ex.

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Dear Dr. Romance:

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I saw your video "Don't Call Your Ex"   Great video post, good advice.

I couldn't agree with you more.  It was a very timely message for me. Just recently, I decided to let go of my partner...for good...It's only been 2-1/2 months since our split....We broke up before, but he came back after 4 months separation. In the video, you said if he really loves me, he'll be back again. I'm hoping...but not calling,emailing or texting anymore. I've learned my lesson.


Dear Reader:

I'm glad you've decided to let him figure it out for himself. It's the only way he'll know whether he loves you or not -- and the only way for you to know, too. "Three Ways to Get Over Your Ex"  might be helpful.

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Just in case he does call you, you might want to read "Dr. Romance: Guidelines for Dating Your Ex"  If he doesn't, The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again will help you find a better guy. Good luck! I wish you a happy and successful relationship, with him or with someone else.


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