If we taught children ... and if we guided ourselves ... to make relationship decisions (who we would open our heart to) and later our sexual decisions (who we would share intimate touch with) through these 12 values, our inner wisdom would guide us. We would become skilled in the gifts of caring, and we would become skilled at discerning if others are treating us well. We would still make mistakes ... but we would make less mistakes than we tend to make now. We would have a foundation with which to examine decisions and a template to learn through. We would know more of love, intimacy and blessing – lovely gifts from our Creator.
"Way too many guys do it like they're 16-years old and cashing in their v-card. If the motion you're making resembles the way a jackhammer breaks up pavement, you're doing it wrong." -Sara, 24