Standards are changing. For years when women accused men of rape they found themselves questioned as if they were the criminals. “What were you wearing? How much sex have you had? How many partners? Did you get drunk?” We have only recently begun to accept that a woman has the right to dress how she likes, go where she wishes, get too drunk or misbehave in other ways without “deserving to be raped.” Rape, even of children will always be a difficult matter to handle legally as there are rarely witnesses. We should not add to that by blaming victims and making them feel responsible for bodily violence that is done to them without their consent and against their will. Read more at http://robingoldstein.net/speaking-of-rape/
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