"Why Won't my Partner Have Sex With Me?"

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"Why Won't my Partner Have Sex With Me?"
Wondering why your partner won't have sex with you? This article may provide the answer.

As long as Lawrence was abandoning himself and making Annie responsible for his sense of worth, he was focused on having control over getting Annie to have sex with him. There was no way that Annie would be turned to him when he was trying to control her and use her. But when Lawrence took on the responsibility of defining his own worth and giving himself the love he was trying so hard to get from Annie, he was able to let go of the control and be present with Annie with love.

Over and over I have seen relationships move back into passion when a needy partner learns how to be loving to themselves, and come from that love rather than from neediness.

 

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