The time to talk is when both people are truly open to learning and there is no agenda to get the other person to change. The time to take loving action on your own behalf is when you find that you are feeling angry, frustrated, sad, lonely and helpless over the interaction. That is when you need to remember to take loving action in your own behalf.
The challenge is in remembering to do it! After all the years of practicing trying to change someone else, it is often very challenging to let go of that and remember to take care of yourself. Yet this is what really works!
To begin learning how to love and connect with yourself so that you can connect with your partner and others, take advantage of our free Inner Bonding eCourse, receive Free Help, and take our 12-Week home study eCourse, "The Intimate Relationship Toolbox" – the first two weeks are free! ! Discover SelfQuest®, a transformational self-healing/conflict resolution computer program. Phone or Skype sessions with Dr. Margaret Paul.