Loving Action Can Create Loving Feelings

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Loving Action Can Create Loving Feelings
Do you believe that you have to feel loving to take loving actions? Discover why this isn't true!

It is important to understand that, just as our feelings often come from our thoughts, they also come from our actions. Taking loving actions in our own behalf, even when we don't feel like it, and taking loving actions toward others, even when we don't feel like it, can lead to feeling full, powerful and peaceful inside. Far from being weak, controlled, and taken advantage of, we move into our personal power and emotional freedom — being truly who we are rather than being reactive to others.

We are in personal power and have emotional freedom when we are guided by our inner Guidance, rather than by our wounded self, regarding what are loving actions.

 

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This article was originally published at Inner Bonding . Reprinted with permission.
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Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a best-selling author of 8 books, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® process - featured on Oprah, and recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. Are you are ready to heal your pain and discover your joy? Take our FREE Inner Bonding course, and click here for a FREE CD/DVD relationship offer. Visit our website at innerbonding.com for more articles and help, as well as our Facebook Page. Phone and Skype sessions available. Join the thousands we have already helped and visit us now!

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Specialties: Anxiety Issues, Couples/Marital Issues, Depression
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