How To Tell If It's Romance Or Friendship

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How To Tell If It's Romance Or Friendship [EXPERT]
Some relationships are ambiguous. Dr. Margaret Paul can help you sort it out.

James soon met another woman, Val, with whom he had romance. He was very attracted to her and they could easily talk for hours. But he soon discovered that romance itself is also not enough. Val did not share his spiritual beliefs, his values or his interests. Her rigid religious beliefs deeply conflicted with his deep spiritual beliefs and he knew he could not raise children with her beliefs. He realized within the first few months of the relationship that none of this was going to change so he moved on, now open to finding a woman with whom he can have it all.

"Am I too picky?" he asked me.

 

"No! Stay solid on what you want and you will find it!"


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