The challenging truth is that we cannot connect with another until we connect with ourselves. This means that we need to open our hearts to feeling and learning from all of our painful feelings - the wounded feelings we create and the core existential feelings of painful life experiences.
When you learn to fully embrace all of your painful feelings - with a compassionate intent to learn - you will be able to keep your heart open with your partner. When your partner is also able to keep his or her heart open, the two of you will connect.
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Connection with your partner will occur easily and naturally when you and your partner have the courage to fully embrace all your feelings with a deep intent to learn. You will easily and naturally connect with each other when you are both openhearted and connected with yourselves.
To begin learning how to love and connect with yourself so that you can connect with your partner and others, take advantage of our free Inner Bonding eCourse, receive Free Help, and take our 12-Week eCourse, “The Intimate Relationship Toolbox” – the first two weeks are free!
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