As Lila became willing to have her husband and others be upset with her, and became willing to take responsibility for her own feelings rather than theirs — which she learned to do through her consistent Inner Bonding practice and through receiving much support from the Inner Bonding membership community — she found herself becoming happy. The more she took responsibility for her own feelings rather than for Seth's, the more loving she felt toward Seth.
I have found that taking responsibility for others' feelings rather than one's own is one of the key issues that cause relationships to fail. Learning how to take responsibility for your own feelings and wellbeing and not for others' feelings may heal your relationship!
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