7 Tips To Ensure You'll Never Have Sex Again

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7 Tips To Ensure You'll Never Have Sex Again [EXPERT]
If you're into sexual frustration, you've come to the right place.

5. Be a couch potato. Many people, especially women, (but many men, as well), need some sense of interaction to feel connected enough to want sex. Be sure to spend most of your free time watching TV or doing mundane things. By the time you get into bed and want to have sex, your partner will be too bored and too disconnected from you to be interested. 10 Ways To Tell If Your Marriage Is Over

6. Be emotionally unavailable, withdrawn, or shut down. Many people need emotional intimacy to feel sexual. You can make sure you'll have no sex by being emotionally distant. Shut down your feelings, and be totally absorbed in other things, rather than being present with your partner.

Be too busy to interact with your partner. Be passive and take no initiative, protecting against rejection, rather than taking responsibility for what you want. This guarantees no sex. Sex Video: Can A Couple Be Happy Without Sex?

7. Take no physical responsibility for yourself. Be sloppy. Don't shower, and be sure to come to bed smelling badly. Eat poorly and don't exercise to make sure you are as unattractive as you can be. Come to bed intoxicated, giving your partner the message that you need to be under the influence to have sex with him or her.

Finally, the real key to never having sex is to do some or all of these things, and then, deny that they cause your lack of sex! You can continue to be angry and complain only as long as you take no responsibility for the above choices.

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