o "I am not enjoying this part of our sex life, let's find something that works for both of us."
o "I don't like it when we wait until we climb in bed and the lights are off to start sex."
o "I don't like it when you wake me up in the morning."
o "I don't like that you don't initiate sex."
Your normal is the best place to start on the path to feeling great about sex!
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