Kate should also act like the grownup she is and recognize that she doesn't really know whether or not he will be upset. Even if he is, nothing terrible is likely to happen. He will eventually get used to the idea and he will continue to be her dad.
Doing these conversation planning exercise will help Kate or anyone else prepare for any communication challenge, especially when it involves an important relationship. It will also help Kate learn to have the challenging conversations that every couple faces as they learn to grow and nurture a successful and loving marriage. Ever Wondered What Buying An Engagement Ring Is Like For A Guy?
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