It Doesn’t Have to Be Hard


It Doesn’t Have to Be Hard
Have YOU ever made something too hard for yourself, only to find out that it could have been easy?

 Do YOU have all the tools you need in hand or within your reach to magnetize your soulmate or achieve any other goal, but are just getting nowhere, wearing yourself out and dating the same person over and over in a different body?

Keep reading…

More from YourTango: The First 5 minutes…and beyond.

The first step to making it easier is to set your steering wheel gently in the right direction. What do I mean by that?

To get what you want, you’ve got to KNOW what you want. Simple, yes? But not that easy, especially around love!

Take 3 minutes right now to just quickly write out the qualities and values that you know that your soulmate possesses.

Does he like to read books, paint, jump out of airplanes, or write love poems to you? Is he spiritual or agnostic or does he practice a particular religion?

Is he exuberantly expressive about life…or is he quiet and gentle in his happiness?
Does he live in your area…or in a foreign country or another city? Are you willing to move to be with him, or vice versa?

What would it take to have you recognize him when you meet him?

This process starts to set your steering wheel gently in the right direction. When we work with people in our live events, like our Love Breakthrough Weekend, we help you clear away the hidden blocks that keep you from setting your steering wheel where you really want to go rather than where you have already been and are used to.

More from YourTango: You’re Really NOT Alone

Doing this practice 3-5 times a week helps you get clearer and clearer about who he is. The clearer you are, the closer you get to him. Keep in mind that your list might change over time, that’s okay! Participants in our LoveLaunch Program say their list changes, but they feel better about it since they’re getting deeper into what it feels like to be with him – and that is your magnetizing power! And our graduates that have already magnetized their soulmate say the clarity helped them recognize their soulmate quickly rather than have that constant wondering wondering wondering.

Just keep setting your steering wheel in the right direction. It’s fun and easy!

Share this with someone you love (or even like a lot)!

Let's make it
FB official
Recent Expert Posts

How to Get Over Your Stinkin' Thinkin'

Recognize "Stinkin Thinkin" that leads to depression and turn it into positive action and success.


Why Breakups Hurt

Breakups hurt us even when there is no love lost.


Why Do Men Hide Their Emotions?

The emotional processing in the male and female brain is not the same....

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>