BIG LOVE. The LOVE of a lifetime. The kind of love that’ll make your sunny days brighter and will make your gray days warmer- forever.
I wish that for you. I WANT that for you. I wouldn’t be spending hours and hours and days and days- writing these articles, writing my book, doing our Love Breakthrough Telecourse and Love Breakthrough Weekend Program workshops if I didn’t KNOW that it’s possible for YOU, the beautiful spirit I’m writing to right now.
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Hey, I know it can be lonely and hard and painful sometimes. Sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever find him (or her). Sometimes you wonder if it’s even worth it, hoping and dreaming of soulmate love…it’s taking soooo LONG! Maybe your mom told you to quit dreaming and be practical, or your best friend (who’s single and miserable) doesn’t “believe in soulmates” and seems to think you’re crazy for thinking soulmate love is even possible.
Believing for and going for soulmate love takes real courage and commitment. This doesn’t mean you don’t have your “down” or fearful days, it just means that you’re willing to be “different” than a lot of your friends and family and that even when it gets difficult, you’ll stay true to your heart’s desire.
In Mike Robbins’ book, Be Yourself, Everyone Else is Already Taken- The Power of Authenticity, Mike has outlined the 5 Principles of Authenticity in clear and powerful language. Principle #4 is “Be Bold”. Be bold enough to ask yourself what you’re passionate about and then step out in spite of any fear you may have.
If you are PASSIONATE about manifesting your soulmate, do what Mike (who’s in a soulmate relationship himself) recommends in Chapter 6 of his book:
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1. Be true to yourself
2. Live with passion
3. Step out (Mike says to ask yourself, “What am I willing to do today that means stepping out and going for what I really want in my life in a bold way?”- I recommend putting this question on a sticky note on your bathroom mirror where you’ll see it everyday)
4. Lean on others (ask for support from positive mentors, books, workshops)
5. When you fall down, get back up. (This is the way successful people in all areas of life get what they want)
Whatever you do, please don’t give up. Keep going. Soulmate Love is worth it. YOU are worth it. The world needs more people in healthy, loving, authentic and connected soulmate relationships. And besides that, life is simply MORE FUN and more FULFILLING when you are connected in this way!