The other day, I was talking on the phone with a 38 year old potential client who told me that she had lost all hope of finding her soulmate. When I asked why, she told me that she has this belief that she just doesn’t get to have what she wants and that she doesn’t deserve soulmate love. She also said that she’s having a really tough time getting over the heartache of her past relationship with her ex-husband, thinking that her getting a divorce is a signal that something inherently wrong with her.
I just wanted to cry! I wanted to scream in frustration at a world that conditions us women (and men) to think somehow that we don’t deserve soulmate love and that we can’t have what we want in life.
Now, this woman is a *very* accomplished woman in her professional life. If you saw her, you’d think she thinks very highly of herself in the way she takes such good care of herself. She’s always coiffed, manicured, perfumed, well-dressed and well-exercised, but her inner world, her self-talk, could use some major adjusting.
Perhaps you feel something like this too sometimes?
Well, I am writing this article today to give you a message of hope. After over 7 years of empowering hundreds of women to claim the love and the life of their dreams (after doing it for myself), I have found that it is crucial to have some foundational principles to work from on your soulmate journey and to help you start to come to terms with the past.
Johnny and I have laid out 3 core principles of all of our teachings and I’m going to share them with you today in this article. As you read them, allow the message behind them to really sink into your soul. Allow yourself to be willing to accept these principles as the TRUTH… because they are.
Johnny and Lara’s 3 Principles of Soulmate Love:
1. We live in a benevolent Universe and we are truly loved and cherished by a Higher Power. Call that higher power whatever you want: God, The Universe, Infinite Intelligence, Gaia, Love, Great Spirit. Whatever it is… It loves us very much and created each and every one of us for a reason and the main reason is the giving and receiving of Love, the greatest energy there is.
2. Soulmate love is your birthright. Yep… it’s your birthright… but not necessarily your destiny. You make soulmate love your destiny by the beliefs that you hold and the actions that you take on a daily basis that are either in alignment with soulmate love…or not.
3. There is a shift of consciousness going on right now on our planet from a patriarchal/ “might is right” mindset to more feminine and balanced model of collaboration, community, contribution, and love. And if you are listening and learning from us, you are resonating with this shift on some level… in fact, you are a necessary part of it!
You see, ALL of our teachings – our telecourses, workshops, coaching, home learning courses and our e-books have the above 3 premises as the foundation. They are the core of our work and our message.
I encourage you to print them out and tape them to your bathroom mirror and look over them daily to help you start to overcome negative self-talk that brings you down. I promise you, if you can start to really integrate these principles in your psyche, you will start to sense a shift in how you relate to the world. Don’t be fooled by the simplicity of the message! It’s very powerful… and life-changing if you let them be!
Your destiny rests in the actions you take on a daily basis. What will you do today that will bring you more into alignment with soulmate love? (which will often be OUT of your comfort zone)
By the way, if you share the beliefs that you can’t get over that heartbreak, that divorce, that breakup, then you’re going to LOVE our brand new free resource: “The Magic of Heartbreak”. It’s a 4 part video teaching series, featuring our teachings and interviews with fellow expert relationship coaches, four women who I love and respect so much.