Consider premarital education to address your fears about the future. Research shows that engaging in any type of premarital education increases the likelihood of being happier in marriage. Anything from downloading a premarital app (like Couplet) to a series of private consultations with a premarital counselor helps. Engaged? 4 Ways To Tell Whether Your Marriage Will Work
Now I think we'd all agree that doing all you can to prepare your relationship for the best possible marriage is definitely something worth obsessing over!