Remember to Update These Documents When You Get Divorced

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Remember to Update These Documents When You Get Divorced
You've probably heard horror stories of the ex inheriting everything - don't let that happen to you!

There are just a ton of legal, financial and medical documents you’re expected to keep track of to help protect and provide for you (and your family) in all kinds of different situations. It can be overwhelming to try to understand and manage it all - especially when you're going through the divorce rollercoaster of emotions. 

Unfortunately, there are lots of people who don't bother with updateing or changing any document outside of the divorce decree.  That's where the problems start.  For example, if you were to forget to update the beneficiary to your IRA, your ex could inherit it

Because it is so difficult to keep track of all the documents you might have and want to update when you get divorced, here’s a list of some of the more common documents you’ll want to make sure deal with when you get divorced.  (You'll also want to review them on a yearly basis too.)

  • Retirement Plans (e.g., 401K, IRA, pension plan, etc.)* Retirement plans are monies that are set aside for an individual’s retirement and can be released to a beneficiary upon the death of the individual.  You'll want to make sure your beneficiaries are updated to reflect your new marital status.**
  • Life Insurance Policy* A life insurance policy can provide for your family after your death and pay for your funeral costs.  You'll want to make sure your beneficiaries are updated to reflect your new marital status.**
  • Will & Trust* These documents can identify the persons or entities that will receive your property when you die, for you to appoint a guardian for your minor children, appoint those you wish to manage your estate, and revoke or alter a previous will.  Make sure your beneficiaries are updated to reflect your new marital status.  You'll probably also want to review the guardians and managers of your estate.**
  • W-4* This document helps your employer to withhold the correct federal income tax from your pay.  With your changed marital status, you might want to adjust your number of dependents to reflect your newly single status.**
  • Medical Treatment Authorization and Consent Form* This form is used in situations where minors are unaccompanied by either a parent or legal guardian. Because your children may be in different care situations than when you were married, you might want to make sure whomever is watching your children has the ability to help your children get appropriate medical care should they need it.**
  • Medical Power of Attorney* This document designates a person whom you trust to make health care decisions on your behalf should you be unable to make those decisions. You’ll probably want to make sure you update who this person is.**
  • Directive to Physicians and Family or Surrogates* A directive is designed to help you communicate your wishes about medical treatment if you are no longer to make decisions due to illness or incapacity.
This article was originally published at The Funcational Divorce . Reprinted with permission.
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Dr. Karen Finn is a divorce coach and the owner of The Functional Divorce. She works with people through all the different life changes divorce creates so they can get to living the best of their lives.

She is the author of On the Road from Heartbreak to Happiness daily messages to help you help yourself heal from divorce.

Dr. Karen is happy to give you "The 5 Things You MUST Know About Your Divorce". In it you'll get the information you need to be prepared for how your divorce will change your life.

 

 

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