Successful and Good Looking But....

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Successful and Good Looking But....
Neither of these may give you all that you want in life. You may secretly wonder if there's more.

When you feel something is missing, you may feel sheepish.  You know people turn their heads when you walk in the room. You may be accomplished and yet you know you feel less than excited about your life.. 

If you mentioned  this to your friends, that would probably say, "Oh come on.  You have everything".  But you don't.

Pondering the what of this, may continue to leave you puzzled..Let me suggest some possibilities.  Perhaps you have an imposter sense that if people really knew you, you might not be so admired.

Maybe there's a part of you that discounts anything good coming towards you.  In your relationships you may be surprised when someone thinks you;re wonderful.  At work you may have the feeling that you should be more perfect.

Trust me.  Life does not have to be this way.  This discounters in your life will keep you from feeling alive.  When you begin to recognizer the power of these beliefs that filter your appreciation of self, you will release the fllters that drag you down. 

Do not stay stuck.  Consider counseling to break through these filters and find the true joy of making your kind of difference in the world.  by Jim Walkup at Dr-Jim-com, 914 548 8645    

 

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Dr. Jim Walkup LMFT

Marriage/Couples Counselor

Learn quickly the best practices for effectively communicating, ending useless fighting, and supporting each other's search for meaning.   Don't settle for a lukewarm or worse partnership.  Addressing the problems now will usher you into building the relationship you have always wanted. 

 

 

Location: New York, NY
Credentials: DMin, LMFT
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