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An Endorsement For Elopement: A Therapist Gets Personal


"Wouldn't it be easier to just elope?," many declare as they plan their just may be!

    So when asked for my hand in marriage by my keep-it-simple husband David (who himself was party to a huge wedding his first time around), we knew the focus had to be on us and the first day of married life together as a sacred event, not an exercise in people pleasing or party planning. Still grinning from ear-to-ear about what a beautiful day we shared, I could not imagine getting married any other way.



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