How to Become a Miracle Worker in Your Relationships


How to Become a Miracle Worker in Your Relationships
The historical concept of a miracle can help you to improve your relationship experience.

Relationships of all kinds provide us with the opportunity to enter the “advanced spiritual growth” university, if used that way.  And with each lesson learned from the challenges presented, we rise to more and more moments of heavenly joy and peace.  We need these challenges on earth to be our best.
If is only because we have denied our innate identity and potential that we cannot see that we are all potentially capable of doing miraculous things attributed to people, such as Moses parting the Red Sea and bringing food from the sky, or Jesus walking on water and raising the dead, or the documented “miracles” performed by various Avatars. Those Avatars, including Sathya Sai Baba of India, have reliable and scientific witnesses of instances where they have healed the sick, raised the dead, been unaffected by lethal poisons, appeared in more than one place at the same time, materialized diverse objects, dematerialized and rematerialized themselves, changed the weather, communicated without words, known a stranger’s past and future, and so on.
Having witnessed some of these events myself, and having spoken with numerous highly reliable witnesses, I believe that these Avatars are at the core not essentially different from any of us, but are actually here to remind us of who and what we all inherently are. When we cease denying our own powers by deifying them- whether in the case of historical or current figures- we can discover, as Jesus said, that “even greater things than I have done, you will do.” It is possible that we can awaken our own Christ consciousness or Buddha nature, just as they did.
To witness miraculous events that are not limited by the body, time, or space, or even to hear about them, can be very anxiety arousing and may cause us to declare adamantly that “I don’t believe that can happen. It has to be a trick. It must be sleight of hand!” When I heard of Sathya Sai Baba’s miracles, I wanted to witness them first hand, and I did.

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Dr. Henry Grayson


Henry Grayson, Ph.D., Integrative Mind Body Spirit Psychologist/Psychotherapist

Author of: Use Your Body to Heal Your Mind: Revolutionary Methods to Release All Barriers to Health, Healing and Happiness, Mindful Loving: 10 Practices for Creating Deeper Connections, The New Physics of Love: The Power of Mind & Spirit in Relationships

Founder: Institute for the Psychotherapies, NYC, The Institute for Science, Spirituality and Psychotherapy

Location: New York, NY
Credentials: ABPP, PhD
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