On the 12th Day of Loving

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On the 12th Day of Loving
True lasting love develops in small steps. So does relationship ending.

Are you in a relationship where you feel an accumulation of little hurts, not one big hurt but many little ones?  Notice how the little hurts build slowly.  Relationship intimacy builds with every caring, sensitive and open communication.  And it is quite fragile, requiring consistent nurturing.

 

On the 1st day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late.


On the 2nd day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late and he raved about an actress on TV.


On the 3rd day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late and he raved about an actress on TV and he didn’t hold my hand.


On the 4th day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late and he raved about an actress on TV and he didn’t hold my hand and he took me to a Fast Foods dinner.


On the 5th day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late and he raved about an actress on TV and he didn’t hold my hand and he took me to a Fast Foods dinner and he flirted with the waitress.


On the 6th day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late and he raved about an actress on TV and he didn’t hold my hand and he took me to a Fast Foods dinner and he flirted with the waitress and he didn’t give me a card.


On the 7th day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late and he raved about an actress on TV and he didn’t hold my hand and he took me to a Fast Foods dinner and he flirted with the waitress and he didn’t give me a card and he didn’t like my gift.

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