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Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Share Your Values?

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Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Share Your Values?
Armed with the right questions, you will know if you should marry him or run.
  • How interested in my health are you?
  • Do you have thoughts about my wellbeing and worry about my safety?
  • Do you feel a sense of pride when I accomplish my career goals, such as further education or career promotions?

The best marriages survive and thrive because they are committed to this set of core values, which are present in all successful loving relationships. If both you and the guy you are thinking about marrying have core values that match, your love has a good chance of thriving over your lifetime together.

Creating a successful relationship is not always the easiest thing to do. Your visiting our blog suggests you are highly interested in making your relationship work! And truthfully, we have learned over 30 years of marriage research that there are proven effective ways to ensure a happy and healthy marriage. In fact, as love and marriage experts we took hundreds of tips from the thousands of happy couples we interviewed throughout the world and put them into our award-winning and bestselling book, Building a Love that Lasts.

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America's #1 Love and Marriage Experts
**For marriage advice and hundreds of practical tips, read the Doctors' best-selling and multiple-award winning book Building a Love that Lasts. Available wherever books are sold.  Learn How to Marry the Right Guy when you read the Doctors' latest book--2014 Mom's Choice Awards Gold Medal for Best Relationship Book. Learn more about America's #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

Location: New York, NY
Credentials: EdD, PhD
Specialties: Couples/Marital Issues, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Marriage, Nutrition, Wellness
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