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How To Get Your Ex back? Try Romance

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Want to save your relationship? Let romance be at the core of your plan with these 3 tips.


Did you just experience a break up? Are you wondering how to go get an ex back?  My Ex was the love of my life.  Our break- up was one of the most emotionally painful, physically draining and (dare I say) soul-wrenching experiences I’ve ever been through .  Three days of crying left track marks on my tear-stained cheeks and eyes so red they begged for a little Visine.  That relationship taught me that love does not conquer all.  Sometimes you just have to let go. 


Most adults have experienced some kind of breakup.  The Magic of Making Up states, “90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing you are willing to put some effort into the pursuit.”


A few weeks after our breakup, my Ex asked to get back with me over coffee and hash browns at the Waffle House.  I said no.  Why?  I felt he had not really put an ounce of thought into getting back with me.  Even his location was a dull choice.  In my opinion, he was just testing the waters.   When your heart has been broken and your lover comes to get you back, you want it to be a memorable and yes, romantic moment.  


If you are serious about saving the relationship, let romance be at the core of your plan.  Here are three romantic tips on how to get your Ex back .


1. The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up.   You have to figure out what went wrong to address the issue and cause a change for the good of the relationship.  Admit your part in it and say you’re sorry.  Most importantly, let your Ex know how you’ve changed and why this time it will be different.

If you cannot find the words, go get a special card that says what you feel in your heart and hand it to them with a single red rose.

2. Write a Love Letter – The mere gesture will be so unexpected it will melt your lover’s heart.  Love letters are an excellent way to mend a struggling relationship, receive forgiveness and kick a stalled relationship into hyper-drive.  So tell them you love them in a special and creative way—in a love letter.

3. Invite them on a date where the two of you can be in a romantic setting.  Pick a restaurant with a lover’s booth and dessert you can share.  Or, take a hike to the top of a mountain with a magnificent view.  Or, go dancing, and spend some time holding each other close.  Do something that both of you will enjoy.


Let your ex see know how much they mean to you and express how confident you are the relationship can work.   Romance is the language of love and a little planned romance is the best way on how to get your Ex back.

Donna Beasley, "The Romance Lady", is a romantic travel expert and travel writer who encourages couples to create memorable romantic moments, honeymoons, vow renewals, and other special romance occasions in travel locations throughout the world. She is also the publisher of Romance Travel Magazine and author of The Romance Lady's Travel Guide to the 50 Sexiest Destinations to Woo Your Lover.

This article was originally published at Romance Travel Magazine . Reprinted with permission from the author.

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