If staying together is not going to happen, begin to focus on yourself. Focus on what you can control. Take steps to emotionally separate. And if one of those steps is to close a joint financial bank account, play fair and leave half the money. It’s a good way to keep your dignity and show that you are in control of you, giving yourself a nice love deposit.
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