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7 Great "Green" Sex Toys For Tantra!


7 Great "Green" Sex Toys For Tantra!
Your sex toy is a tool, and like every tool it has a particular function and purpose.

There are a lot of sex toys out on the market, and a common complaint that I hear from women (and men), is that they just don’t know what to buy, and sometimes- how to use what they have bought already!

When I first started using sex toys many years ago, I was in the same boat. I was overwhelmed by the amount and variety of products, materials, etc.

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What I discovered during my process of self-discovery and sexual awakening is that; your sex toy is a tool, and like every tool it has a particular function and purpose.

So- you want to choose your sex toys/tools with the same attention to function and detail that you would apply to purchasing good hand or power tool, or because we’re women- let’s say make-up brush.

Example- you would not use an eyeliner brush to put on blush, just like you wouldn’t use a screwdriver to drive a nail into a 2x4. So, when it comes to buying sex toys, it’s important to know what your “goal” is, what result you are hoping to achieve.

In Tantra- one of the goals is to explore and expand your sensual boundaries, using pleasure as medicine to heal and remove any “blocks to bliss”, which are limitations or "traumas" that may inhibiting your ability to fully experience your sexuality, your pleasure, or even life itself.

Below are some of my favorite "tools" for supporting the accomplishment of that goal.

All but one of these toys are handpicked from my absolute favorite sex toy company LELO. Every toy that Lelo makes is DIVINE, and most can be used for both solo and partner play, so they are multi-purpose and cost effective.

Also- because Tantra is a path of healing, all of these choices are completely “green” meaning- They are body-safe, phthalate free, petro-chemical free, toxin free.

So without further ado, here are my top 7 Sex Toys for Solo Tantra!

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For opening the G-spot & A-spot

#1) The crystal honey dipper wand...deluxe. The angle on this toy makes it superb for direct g-spot stimulation. There is just nothing else like it for the initial stages of reawakening your g-spot. 100% lucite, which makes it light-weight (easy on the wrist), non-porous, body-safe, easy to sterilize. This is one of the absolute best toy on the market for opening and activating the g-spot in women AND men!

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