Coming out is a deeply personal decision and the experience is as unique as every individual experiencing it. Living in isolation and fear is a terrible burden for anyone to bear. The remedy is clear - seek out support, through a Coming Out Coach or a gay friendly Therapist. Work through the obstacles and fears in your life that keep you from taking whatever action you can in walking out of that closet and closing the door.
If you need guidence and support, please contact me for a complimentary 30 minute consultation. You'll be glad you did!