But THAT is topic for another post. In the meantime, let's be sure to stare down guilt and see the truth that lies behind it. You don't have to beat yourself for it, ladies. You're in new territory and you aren't the same person you were while married. It's OK and even normal, to not want to spend the night—or all weekend—with a guy you're dating. It indicates you're finding fulfillment and joy outside the company of a man. And you're allowed to draw until you're ready for 'more' in a relationship.
1. Ever wonder why you never see SJP's boobs? Sarah Jessica Parker was the only one of the girls with a clause in her contract stating she would never appear nude on screen.
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