I Made Out With A Married Man, And Then I Told His Wife

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I Made Out With A Married Man, And Then I Told His Wife
This 'expert' got conned by a sweet-talking cheater this week. But he messed with the wrong gal...

I found her on Facebook. I looked at her photo and every cell in my body screamed, “You were her. You were her and no one told you for YEARS of your husband’s goings-on. Why would you, of all people, deprive her of that knowledge?”

So I wrote her. And I told her. More than that, we spoke on the phone. And when I got off the phone with her I cried. I cried cause I knew how hard it was for her to listen to what I said. I could feel my hands shaking and blood racing as if in unison with hers. I could feel her world crashing in. I could feel the piercing stab of betrayal through her heart.

But when my tears subsided and my blood calmed, I could only think of her final words to me: “Thank you. Thank you for having the courage to tell me.”

And I held my shoulders back knowing I’d made the right choice – for her AND me.

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This article was originally published at . Reprinted with permission from the author.

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