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4 Essential Tips for 'Soul Centered' Dating #4

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Be a Successful Single

Are you asking yourself, “Hey, if I want to be in a relationship, then why are we talking about how to be a successful single?!” The answer is that if you’re not feeling happy and fulfilled in your life right now, there’s a good chance that you’ll attract someone else who’s unhappy and dissatisfied with life, too… not a great formula for a supportive partnership!

Being single doesn’t mean you put your life on hold. In fact, now is the time to be exploring on the 3 other Essential Tips for Soul-Centered Dating: work on discovering and shifting your self-limiting beliefs (tip #1), then get clear about your life vision and LIVE it (tip #2). As you gain more confidence, you’ll be able to be proactive and “at choice” (tip #3), and to assert your needs positively. When you take responsibility for your own happiness, you’re empowering yourself to be successful in all areas of your life and you become a beacon for your ideal partner to find you.

Thanks for exploring the world of Soul-Centered Dating with me! Be sure to look at the three previous videos in this series, and I hope you’ll visit me at my website to learn more about my relationship programs – . As a Life Design Strategist and Interfaith Minister, I specialize in career/life transition coaching, relationship support for singles and couples and creating unique wedding ceremonies & life passage celebrations. I’ve been married to the same fabulous guy for over 30 years, so have had ongoing “on-the-job” experience in maintaining and nurturing a successful, long-term relationship. I’ve also supported hundreds of singles to attract their ideal partners and couples to create and sustain passionate, fulfilling life partnerships. You can view more videos on a range of topics at my Spirited Musings V-log (, at (where I’m a Founding Coach), or I’d love to hear where you are on your relationship journey and support you any way I can!

4 part Series Essential Tips for Soul Centered Dating

Video #1 Zap your Self-Limiting Beliefs - Spirited Relationships
Video #2 Create a Clear Vision of What You Want
Video #3 Be a Chooser
Video #4 Be a Successful Single


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