Why you shouldn't settle for mediocre relationships

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Why you shouldn't settle for mediocre relationships
Learn why you shouldn't compare your love life to your drama queen friends who settle for less.

You have been led to personal development because you are unique. Only a small percentage of people take advantage of the opportunity to expand their consciousness during their precious human life. Instead of feeling like there is something wrong with you that needs to be fixed, start to believe there is something RIGHT with you because your true self is trying to break free of the status quo.

As you read these words, you can feel that stirring inside of you that says, “YES, I deserve more.” You are not typical; you are at outlier with an extraordinary mission. You haven’t settled for mediocre, so you will attract an extraordinary love. Instead of seeing yourself as bird with a broken wing, start to really believe in your magnificence. You will then easily draw into your life a person who resonates with wonderful you. And…your friends may finally think there is something to all that self-help stuff after all.

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Debi Berndt

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Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

Location: Santa Monica, CA
Credentials: CHT
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