There is only one man you need to understand to find true love


There is only one man you need to understand to find true love
Every man is different, so generic rules won't help you find true love. There's a better way...

By changing my Inner Adam, I was then led through a series of empowering choices to say goodbye to the Mr. Wrongs of my life and I met Roberto, my ideal love, less than two months later. If I had known this was the key, I would have started here instead of wasting all those years on surface dating advice.

No matter how many heartaches you have encountered or how long you have been single, you can change your Inner Adam so that you can attract a man with an ideal Inner Eve. You don’t have to take years of self-help to figure this out, you can go deep and transform in a very short amount of time.

I have a free downloadable lecture and meditation called Awaken Your Inner Adam on my website or you can simply look at the pattern of relationships you had with men to date see the common factors which represent your inner adam. You can go into meditation and call in your Inner Adam and work with him to transform that inner relationship.

You can start understanding the unique relationship you have with every man in your life and the pattern will emerge for you. Once aware of your Inner Adam, you can use visualization and aligned action such as facing your fears to break apart the old schema and start rewiring yourself for a healthy, loving relationship with a man.

True love is filled with emotions and passions but also from the truth of you who are instead of reacting to old patterns that you were trained to act by your family members. You are not destined to repeat these patterns unless you choose to let them be. You have the power to awaken the perfect essence of you and design the love that you choose.

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Debi Berndt


Debi Berndt is the co-founder of, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

Location: Santa Monica, CA
Credentials: CHT
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