Do You Know What Roadblocks Are In Your Life?


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You always find something when you aren't looking for it. The same goes with your inner barriers.

Lastly, you won't know the big master block that is your key to true love until after you have passed through it. All the people I worked with over the past ten years were all surprised at what was the key for them. You have to keep moving and releasing resistance until the trigger straw is lifted.

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The good part about experiencing setbacks and obstacles is that it means that you are on the right track. If you had total peace and calm along your journey to love, the reward you receive in a partner will be just as lukewarm. You aren't like everyone else who settles. You are looking for someone extraordinary. Be brave and move forward. Embrace the challenges along the way, as the blocks are actually your stepping stones to a greater love, a greater life and a greater you!


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Debi Berndt


Debi Berndt is the co-founder of, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

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