Resistance To Love? How To Overcome It For Good

By Debi Berndt. Posted on Jan 2nd 2013.

Resistance is natural and a doorway to everything you want.

If you are doing personal growth work and not meeting resistance then you aren’t getting to the root of change. I see people try to bypass resistance with fancy tricks and healing tools but this actually keeps you more stuck. If it feels too easy, there is no growth. No growth equals more of the same. Think of it like going to the gym and walking on the treadmill 1 mile per hour and wondering why you haven’t lost any weight!

Resistance doesn’t have to be traumatic either, unless you avoid it so much that it takes something drastic to get you to finally change. There is a divine force working through you that is always pushing you for more growth. Your true self wants to be more and have more of everything of life. It is the friction of the divine force and resistance that draws out your character, tests your faith and prepares you for the next level of your life experience.

Resistance prepares you for the greatest love of your life. The process naturally cleanses you of the barriers you placed long ago that you no longer need and reveals your true nature. It is the great loofah sponge of life! You glow, shine and attract a higher-level match from your authentic self on the other side.

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Debi Berndt, Relationship and Success Mindset Mentor for the modern woman to attract the man of her dreams for her body, mind and soul. Author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your FREE True Love Starter Kit here.

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