Unlucky In Love? Why You Shouldn't Shut The Door

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Unlucky In Love? Why You Shouldn't Shut The Door [EXPERT]
Feeling impatient and wanting to give up? Find out how to keep the hope alive.

There is so much hidden in the subconscious mind that you cannot expect your life to go smoothly all the time. You can't clear every block, so s*it is going to hit the fan every once in a while. If you can maintain your mental focus during times of despair, you have mastered your life. This is true freedom. You can choose to stay stuck in a funk or pick yourself up and keep moving toward what you want.

An easy way to do this is to imagine your big, powerful self larger than any problem in your life. Whether you need to pay bills, find true love or land that perfect job, you are the one who can make it happen when you stand in your power. Follow the flow of energy that opens up the doors for you to step through to your greatest dreams. You always have the key — the door is only locked by your own limited thinking. As you open up to receive with patience and trust, you will reach your true destiny in love and life. Why You Should Not Hope To Find Love

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Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

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