Don't Hate Valentine's Day if you are Single

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Don't Hate Valentine's Day if you are Single
Discover 5 ways to change your mindset around Valentine's Day to attract your true love

How you look at Valentine’s Day will affect what you attract in relationships. Your subconscious mind will draw you to things that make you happy. If you surround each February 14th with pain, your inner mind will literally repel you from anything to do with love. If you celebrate love even when you are single, your subconscious learns that love is good and pleasurable and will intuitively draw you to the right situations to attract love to you right away.

 

Remember that how you experience the day is your choice. No one is telling you to feel bad or to feel left out of the “love club” but your own mind. You can change your thoughts around the holiday so that you can have fun with it. The more you open your heart to love you make it more attractive to you.
 

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Debi Berndt

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Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

Location: Santa Monica, CA
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