2. Pay attention to your dreams. Your dreams are a treasury of insight and information to guide you on your journey to a fulfilling relationship. They speak to you in symbolic language so you need to journal about them and follow your inner guidance.
3. Create an inner dialogue. Work with your subconscious mind by visualizing and facing the part of you that acts as the picker. Ask yourself questions and trust the answers that come to you.
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4. Get a guide. Hire a coach that specializes in subconscious work. This is the fastest way to get yourself aligned with love.
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Once you shift your subconscious even slightly, you will see a huge difference in who you're attracted to and who is attracted to you. You may even notice that more opportunities will show up to meet nice guys, and that friends will come out of nowhere to introduce you to someone worthy. The bottom line is that you don't have to worry about saying the right things or playing the dating game. Your picker, if well-tuned, will always give you the love match you most desire. Isn't that much easier than wondering if you should wait three days to call him?