Is the crumb-grabber in you picking your dates?

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Is the crumb-grabber in you picking your dates?
Stop settling for less, believe you can have the love you want.

True love is found by understanding the mind and yourself –your true self. Once you see the magnificence of who you really are, you can start from that fresh place of possibility. You can face forward and focus on what you want instead of what is causing you pain. You can create love rather than coming from fear.

In this creative open place is where love is not just a possibility, but an eventuality.

 

One way to see beyond the ego is to understand the shadow of what you can't see. What if what was stopping you was right in front of you? Find out during our Free Class -Meet your Love Shadow and open your mind and heart to love.

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Debi Berndt

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Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

Location: Santa Monica, CA
Credentials: CHT
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